Insideout Living
Where High-Achieving Lives Come Home to Themselves
Leadership. Identity. Healing. Legacy — From the Inside Out.
We help executives, founders, professional athletes, partners, and high-performing women and men reclaim the clarity, emotional mastery, and inner authority needed to lead without losing themselves.
There comes a moment when the life you built stops feeling like the whole answer.
High Performers Reach This Quietly
Executives, founders, professional athletes, partners, and women and men who carry a great deal on the outside often begin to feel a shift on the inside
a need for clarity, steadiness, and a different way of being.
What Insideout Living Offers
We help you meet that moment with honesty, support, and grounded guidance.
Our approach is trauma -informed, somatically rooted, and spiritually steady —
designed to help you reconnect with yourself in a real and practical way.
We strengthen the parts of you that matter most now:
emotional capacity
nervous system stability
boundaries and relational clarity
inner authority
the ability to lead and live with alignment
How We Do It
Through neuroscience, somatic integration, spiritual grounding, and our proprietary pathways —
The Second Knowing™, Safe Tables™, and the Turning of the Hearts™ Process —
We help you step into the next chapter of your life with more confidence, ease, and truth.
When You Grow on the Inside, Everything Shifts
Your relationships, your decisions, your leadership, and your well-being begin to reflect the change.
The work starts within,
and it naturally reshapes every part of your life.
The Three Pathways
Transformation Isn’t Linear, It’s Lived
Insideout Living offers three distinct pathways that help women, men, and couples strengthen emotional capacity, reconnect with themselves, and lead their lives with more clarity and alignment.
Every pathway speaks to a stage of becoming:
the woman returning to herself,
the man learning to lead with honesty,
and the partnership rediscovering its rhythm under real-life pressure.
Our work blends neuroscience, somatic wisdom, and lived spiritual insight.
It is trauma-informed, culturally rooted, and firmly grounded in the day-to-day realities of people who carry a lot.
Whether you enter through a circle, a coaching session, or a leadership space, the invitation is the same:
Lead, love, and live from the truth of who you are.
For Women:
The Second Knowing™
When you’ve outgrown the version of yourself that success required.
At some point, success stops being the whole story.
The Second Knowing™ is where women return to the parts of themselves that were pushed aside while achieving, caring, leading, and holding everyone else together.
This pathway helps women rebuild clarity, emotional steadiness, and inner authority through somatic grounding, spiritual alignment, and identity work.
Ideal for:
Women in transition, executives, founders, caregivers, leaders, women navigating a new season of life, women who feel spiritually anchored but emotionally tired.
What shifts:
clarity in identity
boundaries without guilt
emotional steadiness
nervous system resilience
self-trust and inner wisdom
For Couples:
Coaching with Lisa Lackey
When a relationship built on love starts to strain under real life’ pressure.
For Couples Navigating Pressure, Change, or the Fear of Losing Each Other
When two people are carrying a lot — careers, visibility, leadership roles, parenting, aging parents, unresolved patterns — the relationship becomes the place where the pressure shows up first.
Our couples pathway offers grounded, trauma informed, somatic, and spiritually steady support for partners who want to move through conflict, distance, or betrayal with honesty and skill.
Ideal for:
High-stakes couples, partners of leaders or athletes, couples navigating rupture, repair, or emotional disconnection.
What shifts:
communication clarity
nervous-system safety between partners
patterns that create distance
emotional reconnection
tools for navigating conflict without collapse or escalation
For Men:
Safe Tables™ with Steve Lackey
When it feels like you’re responsible for everything, it leaves no room to be honest.
For Men Who Carry Responsibility and Need Space to Be Human
You don’t need another pep talk.
You need a place where you can tell the truth without the pressure to perform.
Safe Tables™ is a grounded, structured space where men rebuild clarity, emotional steadiness, and integrity — not by pretending, but by finally exhaling.
This pathway strengthens emotional fluency, presence, and accountability so men can lead from a steady, honest center rather than from collapse, shutdown, or armor.
Ideal for:
CEOs, founders, professional athletes, partners, fathers, and men navigating pressure, conflict, private struggles, or identity questions that success cannot answer.
What shifts:
emotional regulation
accountability with compassion
relational presence
leadership integrity
the ability to name truth without fear
Meet the Founders
Lisa Lackey
M.A., LCPC, CSAT, CMAT
Women’s Transformation & Deep Identity Coach
“You’re not broken; you’re becoming.”
Lisa holds a Master’s in Counseling and is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC) with advanced certifications in trauma and addiction recovery (CSAT, CMAT).
Her 25+ years of clinical and somatic practice inform her work as a Women’s Transformation + Deep Identity Coach, and Couples Coach, bringing depth, safety, and evidence-based wisdom to every session.
Steven Lackey
M.A., ASAT, AMAT, CPLC
Men’s Transformation & Identity Recovery Coach
“Where men rebuild truth, not image.”
Steve earned a Master’s in Psychology and holds advanced certifications in sexual addiction treatment (ASAT, AMAT) and Certified Professional Life Coach (CPLC).
With more than 25 years of experience guiding men through recovery, accountability, and personal leadership, he combines clinical insight with grounded mentorship inside Safe Tables for Men™.
Client Reflections: Stories of Transformation
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“I came to Lisa overwhelmed and disconnected. Within six weeks of The Second Knowing™, my stress levels dropped by half, I started sleeping through the night, and I made three decisions I’d been avoiding for years. I left with clarity, peace, and a sense of myself I hadn’t felt in decades.”
—The Second Knowing™ participant
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“We still had love, but no language. After three months of couples work, our weekly arguments dropped from five to one, we rebuilt trust, and we finally learned how to speak without spiraling. Our home feels lighter, safer, and more connected.”
—Couples Coaching client
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“Steve’s Safe Tables™ shifted everything. Within 90 days, I stopped shutting down under pressure, repaired a two-year rupture with my wife, and became the leader my team can actually trust. This work changed how I show up as a man, husband, father, and CEO.”
—Safe Tables™ member
Wherever you begin, we’ll meet you there.
Whether you’re seeking clarity, connection, or the courage to slow down, Insideout Living offers trauma-informed coaching and leadership support that helps you rediscover your presence, steadiness, and peace.
Because the world doesn’t need a more polished you.
It needs a present you.
Your Healing, Heals Others.
Your growth creates ripple effects.
Whether you’re ready to begin or simply exploring, you’re in the right place.
Everyone benefits from a regulated nervous system — the foundation of clarity, connection, and emotional steadiness.
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